According to the Bureau of Justice Statistics Research Report (December, 2000), 5% of college women nationwide experience a rape or attempted rape in a given academic year. Men can also be the victims of rape and sexual assault. It is important to respond sensitively to students who disclose having experienced a sexual assault or an attempted assault.
The Bureau of Justice report also tells us that 95% of the assaults of college women go unreported in any formal way. One-third of women do not tell anyone of their experience, and two-thirds tell a friend or other trusted individual. Complicating the issue of reporting is the fact that most assailants are persons known to the victim; they are not strangers.
If you are the person trusted with this information, what can you do?
Do
- Listen to the person's account
- Let the person know you care about their well-being
- Appreciate any feelings disclosed as normal under the circumstances
- Assist the person in obtaining additional support and help (see resources below). In particular, the Student Victim Advocate can be of support to the student and explain all of the options available to the student
- Ask about the person's physical condition (i.e., the possibility of physical injury or exposure to disease or, for women, pregnancy)
- Ask about the person's current experience of safety; if they do not feel safe in their environment, offer assistance in increasing their sense of safety by contacting the Student Victim Advocate
Don't
- Relate your own experience or story in any detail
- Pursue specific details, except to clarify what you are hearing
- Offer judgments about what might have been done differently
- Make decisions for the person
Resources
The student may need and want to seek medical attention, even some time after the assault, to check for physical damage and to test for sexually transmitted disease and pregnancy. Medical assistance at San Joaquin General Hospital includes a comprehensive medical exam, and a forensic exam, if desired. Medical assistance at Pacific Health Services includes treatment for non-life-threatening injuries, non-evidentiary exams, offering the option of the morning after pill (when the student is seen within 72 hours of the sexual assault), and provision of follow-up medical tests for sexual assault victims.
Note that if the person who reports an offense requests a change in academic, living, or work arrangements as a result of the offense, the college will make reasonable efforts to accommodate such requests. The Student Victim Advocate can be of assistance with these requests.
The student should be advised of the right to make a formal complaint of the assault to the police department in the city where the assault occurred. If the assailant is a student member of the campus community, a complaint can be filed with the Department of Public Safety. If the assailant is a faculty or staff member of the University, a complaint can be filed with the Human Resources Department.
The Sexual Assault and Harassment Policy, which includes details of the adjudication process is available in the Tiger Lore Student Handbook.
As mandated by law, if a student discusses the sexual assault with a member of the staff or faculty, all campus personnel (with the exception of therapists in Counseling and Psychological Services) are required to file an anonymous sexual assault report form with the Student Victim Advocate.